SELF CONFIDENCE

One who believes himself / herself will achieve their goals. One who has difficulty in believing himself / herself will not believe others and they will find it difficult to achieve things. They will find it difficult even to make an attempt. The reason for lack of self confidence is due to lack of self belief and fear of failures. When we are not exposed to a new situation, we will have lot of reservations leading to have disbelief in us and in our decisions & actions. Main reason for all this is lack of opportunity to try newer things.
JCI will provide lot opportunities to get the rich experiences. Members can get opportunities as listed below :
1. Listening to speakers2. Meeting people of different walks of life3. Speaking to a selected audience - invoking Jaycee creed, introducing Guests,4. Participating as a project committee member5. Serving as a Project Director6. Servings as a CGB Member7. Mobilising Men, materials & Money8. Becoming president9. Serving in Zone Governing board10. Serving as Zone President, National officers.
“Jo til mein hai tel, jo jagmag mein hai aag,tera sai hai tere andar, jag sake to jaag”
(Hindi saying by poet - Saint Kabit)
Sesame seeds contain oil within, Flint stones hold potential sparks,Your potential lies within you, awake to this fact.
Please note that sesame seeds need to be crushed to produce oil... that flint stones need to struck against each other to create a spark of fire... similarly we need to awake ourselves to the potential within us.
Self-image is the platform from where all our actions flow. Each action, feeling and behaviour cannot but be consistent with this image on our internal mirrors. To change our results, we must change the negative blueprint we have created over time.
Since repetition created the state of our current image, it will also take repetition to change our state of mind from unhealthy to healthy. This is where most of us breakdown. We simply don’t muster the stamina or the faith to repeat the right behaviours and action long enough to create a healthy self-image, that can lead us to become more than we think we are.
We must build and modify our self-image through positive auto suggestions... those words and pictures that trigger the positive images to give us the power to move in the right direction. Over time, these new directions lead us to feel better about ourselves, enhance our character, and release within us the power to be our best.
We must move From TO I think I will I will try I can I might I know May be Definitely I hope so Okay I don’t know Fantastic Let me see Great Possibly Always Perhaps Absolutely Sometimes Sure
Auto-suggestions must be always in present tense, will all positive terms and should be done ideally in the morning from bed and night to bed.
“What the mind can conceive, the man can achieve”There is a HeroIf you look inside your heartYou don’t have to be afraid of what you areThere is an answer if you reach into your soulAnd that sorrow that you know will melt awayAnd then a hero comes along with the strength to carry onAnd you cast your fears aside & you know you can surviveSo when you feel like hope is gone, look inside you & be strongAnd you will finally see the truthThat the hero lies in you !(A song by Mariah Carrey)
Posted By Suresh Vanjara